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To access services, call our hotline at 203-622-0003.

 

Immediate assistance

Domestic Abuse Services offers immediate crisis intervention to help victims cope with physical, emotional and psychological trauma in the aftermath of a domestic violence incident. It starts with an empathetic dialogue to assess immediate needs and safety.

The YWCA provides a 24-hour hotline (203-622-0003) and on-site emergency response at
area hospitals, police departments and in court. Walk-ins to our office are always welcome.
 

Counseling services

Our private office is open Monday-Thursday, 9am – 5pm and Friday, 9am - 4pm. Early morning, evening and Saturday counseling appointments are available on request.

  • Individual counseling

               > Development of safety plans to minimize risk and danger
               > Identification of options and goals
               > Referrals to collaborative service providers
               > General emotional support, in a safe and confidential environment.

  • Group counseling

               > Helps to lessen feelings of isolation, self-blame and denial
               > Clients recieve support from each other while expressing themselves to get a better
                     understanding of their own experience
               > Groups meet at the YWCA Greenwich on a regular basis

To access services now, call our Hotline at 203-622-0003.

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Emergency shelter

Leaving an abusive relationship isn’t easy. Victims of domestic violence who are in danger may seek refuge in our emergency shelter. The location of the shelter is kept confidential in order to keep clients safe.  The shelter is available to victims and their children and pets.  If it is not safe for you to stay in the local area, Domestic Abuse Services will help find placement out-of-town or out-of-state. While at the Shelter, individuals receive counseling and assistance to help rebuild their lives and plan a violence-free future.

 

Safety planning

If you think you are in an abusive relationship, it's important to make a plan to keep yourself and your children safe. Having a safety plan is like keeping an emergency kit in your car. Hopefully you won’t need it, but if you do, it could save your life.

  • In an emergency

                   > Do not run into a room with no escape (e.g. a closet) or with weapons (e.g. the kitchen)
                   > Get to a safe place such as a trusted neighbor’s house, where you can call 911
                   > If possible, grab your Emergency Kit: Items to consider

  • Protect your children

                    > Teach children how to dial 911. Ensure them that they can trust the police.
                    > Make sure children know a safe place for them inside or outside of the home
                          (e.g., a room with a lock or a trusted neighbor’s house)
                    > Reassure children  that violence is not their fault and that you want to be sure
                          they stay safe
                    > If your child has a restraining or protective order against your abuser, be sure to share
                          it with his or her preschool, daycare or school
                    > Teach children how to distinguish between a real emergency and a simple argument
                    > Give children a list of important phone numbers to keep with them, such as numbers
                          of relatives or trusted neighbors

  • Creating a Safety Plan is the best way to reduce risk whenever possible. It's a practical guide that helps you think through lifestyle changes that will keep you be safe in any environment, on a daily basis. (Click here for a sample personal safety plan.)

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To access services now, call our hotline at 203-622-0003.

 

Children's services

Home should be a safe place but for too many children it's a place of conflict and even danger.  Exposure to domestic violence can have long-term consequences.

  • Services for children include:

                    > Individual counseling that is trauma-informed, including play and art therapy
                    > Group counseling that helps children normalize their experiences and feel connected
                          to peers
                    > Family counseling that can help re-establish the authority of the non-abusive parent
                          or caretaker, as that role is often undermined by the abuser
                    > Professional YWCA therapists who help model positive communication while creating
                          a sense of security within the family.
 

Resources and referrals

During times of transition, clients may need supplemental support for basic needs. Domestic Abuse Services can help you identify programs and providers that may be available to advise you about your specific situation.  Examples include: housing, food assistance, legal support, immigration and transportation.

To access services now, call our hotline at 203-622-0003.
 

Criminal and civil court services

Navigating the criminal and family court processes can be intimidating and confusing. Domestic Abuse Services helps you better understand these systems and can advocate with other service providers on your behalf.

  • When a domestic violence arrest has been made, the Family Violence Victim Advocate provides support for the victim with navigating the criminal court process, including:

         > Preparation for hearings and court
             accompaniment
         > Speaking on record on behalf of the victim
         > Monitoring/notifiying the victime of updates
              about the case

  • YWCA Advocates offer guidance in preparing an application for a civil restraining order and providing safety planning and support around obtaining, serving and implementation of the order.
  • Clients learn to navigate and use the various public service systems available to them through referrals and collaborative advocacy.
  • Policy work includes advocacy at the local, state and national level regarding legislation and policies around improving services and protection for victims of domestic violence.

For more information about Court Advocacy and help in obtaining Criminal Protective Orders, or Civil Restraining Orders, call 203-965-5261.

 

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